Happy Birthday Em!
HAPPY BIRTHDAY BABE!
Thank you for always being supportive and putting up with me ;-). I love you.
Just like your spoon, but with way more yard in it!
HAPPY BIRTHDAY BABE!
Thank you for always being supportive and putting up with me ;-). I love you.
Posted by Benjamin P Lee at 12/05/2008 10:57:00 AM 0 comments
Its official. The first two weeks in December will be the beginning of my time on a new project for work which will take me to California off and on for the next few months.
Crazy
I will be part of an ongoing project to provide Agile mentoring and coaching to a large health care company's software development teams. I will be traveling back and forth between STL and the greater San Francisco Bay area for the next several months into the spring. Its going to be pretty crazy around here adapting to the traveling and a new kind of work that I haven't done before, but I am completely excited.
** I also have to commend my wife for being SUPER supportive of me taking on this project. I wouldn't be able to handle the travel let alone the stress if it wasn't for her :-) **
At the same time that I am very excited about the project, the work, California in the winter vs. St. Louis weather, the people, and the opportunity ... I have to admit I am a fair bit nervous. While I have worked on agile teams before (one consulting client doing a very simple version of Scrum and XP here at Asynchrony) and feel comfortable doing it on a daily basis ... this work is going to be something different. My purpose will be to work with one or more existing development teams, helping them identify areas where they are missing the mark when it comes to agile adoption and good development practices, and to guide them to better work practices, better communication, better productivity and better moral. This isn't something I have ever done officially before and its left me a fair bit anxious.
Luckily, I have 3 weeks to prepare. My last project is inbetween SOWs so we have been doing some maintenance and cleanup work which should leave me with time to study up on my agile processes, remember the differences between Scrum and XP, and talk things over with various people at work.
Wish me luck.
On the car front ... its currently being fixed. The estimate came back at > $4k which was actually lower than what I expected. It won't be fixed until the 19th, so, thanks to my rental coverage on my insurance, I have a rental for the next week or so. Initially they gave me a Kia Sorento, but it was very dirty so I returned it. Good and bad for me, the only thing they had to replace it with was a '07 Chrysler 300M. Its a very nice car, what with the leather and hugeness, but I would never buy one. I feel like I am driving a bus!
In regards to who was "officially" at fault ... thats in a holding pattern. I have given recorded statements to both mine and the other driver's insurance companies ... but since there were no witnesses we now have to wait for the police report to see who can blame who for the accident. Stupid, but what can you do. :-/
Posted by Benjamin P Lee at 11/11/2008 10:43:00 PM 2 comments
On my way home tonight I got in an accident.
Well, it might be more appropriate to say that an accident got me.
OR, it might be more accurate to say that a college student ran a red light and smacked the front drivers side of my car with the back passenger side of his car.
yeah, that one is the best (and worst).
Don't worry, I appear to be as healthy and crazy a I always was ... but poor Sigmund the Sonata has seen better days. He is currently at the body shop associated with a local Hyundai dealer and I am waiting until tomorrow to hear from my insurance company and to contact theirs.
Fun stuff. And by "fun stuff", I mean Crappy Mc'Crappy (Koozism alert)
Posted by Benjamin P Lee at 11/04/2008 10:22:00 PM 0 comments Labels: life
The more you need to post, and the more you have to post, but the less you want to sit down and post. :-/ ;-)
Here is a long needed update going back to the beginning of October:
Josh's Wedding
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| From stl |
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Posted by Benjamin P Lee at 11/02/2008 09:35:00 PM 0 comments Labels: food, housing, life, photography, reviews, tech stuff, work
I enjoy sports and I enjoy statistics about sports but I have never really gotten into Fantasy Sports. The idea always appealed to me but I guess I always felt like I didn't know enough about enough of the players and games to make good choices.
My only attempt until recently was back in college when some friends from high school got me into a free NFL fantasy league. After trying my best during the automated draft and the first couple weeks I lost interest/forgot/was busy and didn't update my team or even really look at it again until the playoffs at which time I was very surprised I had somehow beaten a couple of people despite my RB being hurt after the first game and still starting on my team ;-) :-/
Work sponsors paid leagues for MLB and NFL but I didn't participate this year ... however I am trying out my hand at two simplified version.
A coworker writes for Fungoes.net, the local SABR chapter blog, and put together a playoff fantasy league where each person picked players at each position before the playoffs started and will ride them to the end of the World Series at which time whoever's players have the largest combined Runs Created stats wins. Through the first round your's truly is in last place! :-D (Crunchers) Hopefully I will do better in the LCS.
Posted by Benjamin P Lee at 10/19/2008 10:26:00 AM 0 comments Labels: life
Its been a roller coaster couple weeks.
Two weeks ago Em's grandfather passed away. It has been a hard time since then but luckily Em's family was able to all be together and through telling some crazy stories and finding tons of old photos were able to celebrate Peter's life instead of just mourning his death.

Posted by Benjamin P Lee at 9/07/2008 08:27:00 PM 0 comments Labels: food, life, tech stuff, work
Posted by Benjamin P Lee at 9/03/2008 11:00:00 PM 0 comments Labels: tech stuff
I have had this stuck in my head ALL night. Hopefully, if I watch it enough times it will go away ... that or make me go nuts ... lets hope for the first one.
Posted by Benjamin P Lee at 8/24/2008 08:03:00 PM 2 comments
Posted by Benjamin P Lee at 8/21/2008 08:13:00 PM 0 comments Labels: food
Em has been bugging me for a week or so now to post ..... ;-)
Since the last post we have been keeping busy.
On the bad side, several members of both of our families have had medical issues in the past few weeks. As it stands right now everyone is ok or doing better which is a good thing.
Even Jolie wasn't able to get past the last few weeks without seeing a doctor ....she has had three seperate "minor/treatable" issues since we got her. First was an ear infection (lab + shar pei ears = problem area). Next was a cut on her lip where she bit herself chasing a squirel. Finally, she is currently having some gland issues which we are treating. :-(
As far as the good stuff ....
Em started up at work again and has had some good, unussual and terrible parents to deal with. I have been plugging away at work also; this is the last week of our current project so we are trying to clean up all of the loose ends. In a call this past week with our client, we were informed that a new listing had gone up on their site that we had to check out. This place is CRAZY. If it weren't for the fact that its listed at 5.5 million, I would so think about buying it just to check it out. Who needs drugs if you live in a place like this?
A week or so ago I had to call Charter (or cable company) up to dispute some charges on our bill and while I was on the phone I mentioned a very random ad I saw on the TV a few days prior saying that if new or current customers called up they could get HBO+Cinemax / Showtime + XXX / some other premium channel free until the end of hte year. Well, it worked and now we have HBO and Cinemax free until next August (the ad said until Jan, but the women told me 12 months, so I didn't complain). I would never pay extra for the channels, but for free they are great!
A while back Em finally found Mariokart at a Target while she was picking up some other stuff so she bought it for me. I will post/send my friend code out if anyone who reads this still plays. Its a pretty cool game and I am enjoying working my way through all of the levels. Toad for the win!
Last week was Em's and my 3 year aniversary. Wow, I still can't believe its been that long already. To celebrate we went out to a nice dinner at the Top of the Riverfront. Its a local restaurant downtown at the very top of the Millenium hotel. The main feature is that the restaurant is circular and the whole thing rotates slowly so you get some amazing views. The views were great and the food was good. Plus, they were having a special that week with 24 other restaurants downtown where you could get a 3 course meal at any of them for $25. :-)
Finally, my father in law pointed me to a piece of legislation I had missed in the last few months. It seems that will one of the economic/housing bills passed this year to attempt to shore up the economy, was a provision for a federal "tax-credit" for first time home buyers who purchase their first home between April of this year and sometime in the spring/summer of next year. I still haven't fully researched it, but from what I have read, it isn't so much a tax-credit as an interest free tax-loan. Basically if you purchased your home this year you can get up to 10% of your home's purchase price up to $7500 as a tax credit on your '08 taxes (below the line, meaning straight savings). The catch is that you have to pay this money back. Thats right, no free ride here. Basically, a year after you get the credit you start paying it back in the form of $500 extra on your taxes each year for the next 15 years. If you sell your house before hand, you pay all of it back that year out of your procedes. If you die, its forgiven. So, basically its an interest free loan with really slow pay-back terms. Will this help the economy? I don't know. Will I gladly accept the money and use it to either A) make the final push past 20% on the house so that I don't pay PMI any more or B) buy a TV and laptop. I haven't decided but either way it should be good. :-)
Posted by Benjamin P Lee at 8/21/2008 07:16:00 PM 0 comments Labels: finance, housing, life, reviews, work
Last night Em and I took in the Cards game with some of the best seats I have ever had for a professional sports match. A relative of Em's owns his own small company and occasionally gets box seats for people at work and clients. Somehow, I never got the exact story, he won through a raffle luxury box seats for last nights game on short notice and invited Em and I along with a couple other family members and coworkers to the game.
Posted by Benjamin P Lee at 7/22/2008 09:28:00 PM 1 comments Labels: life
First the "less" exciting stuff ....
This past week Em took it upon herself to paint our office "Harvest Gold" and it looks great. The racing flags (it was a nursery before) and offwhite color just weren't doing it for us. Now the place looks great in a golden color that complements the furniture and looks very nice (great job babe).
Posted by Benjamin P Lee at 7/19/2008 08:38:00 PM 4 comments Labels: housing, life
First the good news ... I fixed our doorbell. When we moved in we noticed that the doorbell button was cracked and so one of our first weekend in the new place I went out and bought a new button. Simple thing with two mounting screws and two screws to tighten the wires around. Not even two minutes of work and the things were switched. Great!
Or so I thought.
Our doorbell (the actual "bell" part) is a two tone thing (e.g. diiiiiing doooooong) but after I switched the buttons it was more of a dingg do.......zzzzgnzazx. To the untrained ears, I assumed that the problem was that the power wasn't being supplied long enough for it to complete the "bell" and that there must be some reason for the new button only applying the juice for a second when the old one did it longer.
A few weeks past and I finally got around to googling the problem and after a bit of searching found out that it was my fault. On the back of the original button was a small electrical "thingy" attached to the two poles without any obvious use and which didn't seem to have come with the button. When the new button didn't work I had tried putting it on the new button, but nothing changed so I pitched it with the old button figuring it didn't matter. Well I was wrong.
Evidently it was a diode thats is somehow important to having the power supplied correctly to the "bell" and which I needed to fix my button. After a bit more reading I found this site and several more like it which confirmed this so tonight I was off to Radio Shack. Thanks to the sites helpful hints I found it (part numbers were right on) and installed it. Viola! Now it works like a champ.
One place I read about diodes said they were polar (ie aren't symectrical and have a "flow" to them) so its possible that I had just tried it the wrong way and it would have worked the other way. But either way, its fixed now, I know I need one, I don't know any more about diodes other than that you can pick up a pack of 2 at Radio Shack for 99 cents. :-)
Now the bad news....
My uncle noticed when he was touring the house during the party that in one corner of our backyard on our retaining wall near the fence is several poison ivy plants. GRRRRRR. This is quite a problem in a multitude of ways first and foremost being that I (and my dad) are VERY alergic to poison ivy (e.g. when I was a young lad and in the boy scouts I got it a couple times, the last resulting in bad blisters, horrible bumps all over and my face swelling to the point where I couldn't really open my eyes). Secondly, we really want to get a dog this weekend and we can't have that around if its going to be sniffing around the backyard and coming inside.....
So this week we are going to try and get rid of it. And by we I mean me for moral support and Em doing the work very carefully b/c so far she has never had a reaction to it and we are hoping won't start now.
What I have read so far (aprox 15 minutes of googling) is that we will talkt our neighbor about it and given her consent, proceed to purchase and use a "large" amount of a good herbicide to kill the any and all plants we can find while trying to kill as little of the plants around them. Several people have suggested using Roundup (or other with gyphosate?) which gets absorbed and kills down to the root and then a day or two later soaking the whole area with tons of water to loosen the soil and then wearing protective gear which can be thrown away, pulling out all of the plants, putting them in plastic bags to be thrown away and washing every one and thing after.
So, that should be interesting. If anyone has any suggestions please let me know. :-(
Posted by Benjamin P Lee at 7/14/2008 09:04:00 PM 4 comments Labels: housing
The party was a success with 35+ family and friends stopping by and enjoying a burger/hotdog and a drink while getting to see the new house. More people than we expected were able to make it and we appreciated everyone stopping by. It was a nice time being able to throw a party like that in our own home with a good amount of space. When it wasn't raining we even got in a few games of cornhole in the backyard.
Sometime between now and next weekend Em and I may be getting a dog. We have pretty much decided that we want to get one now and just need to do a few things and find one. We will probably be getting one from the Missouri Humane Society since they have a ton right now. We are planning on getting a "smaller" medium sized dog that ideally would have hair on the shorter side ... but we might just end up getting whatever wags its tail at us first :-) Em found these two great looking dogs on their website (Sadie and Chance). :-D
Oh, and I found this link today ... chess and boxing? I was picturing something closer to "wizard chess" but with real people but this seems just as strange.
Posted by Benjamin P Lee at 7/13/2008 06:41:00 PM 0 comments Labels: housing, life
Not too much is going on.
Big party this weekend at our house (anyone who reads this and wants to come is invited). Should be a nice time with friends and family and food. BYOB but we will have some, plus hot dogs, burgers, snacks, soda, cornhole, music, etc
Brined and stuff pork chops tonight .... mmm mmm good.
Been doing a lot of yard work this past week(end). Weed-B-Gone works wonders but the bottle you need to be careful with the bottle with the hose attachment. There isn't a good way to tell how much your applying or how fast you should be working across the lawn. FYI if you put ~50% more than what is suggested on your lawn ... the tips of your grass will turn yellow too. But damned if it doesn't kill the weeds.
We had a tree service come today (actually they came out of the blue today, we had asked them to come out but they couldn't tell us when they would be available). They too two limbs off the tree closer to the house. The tree has some other problems which are stressing it out, but at least this way it will be a little more symmetrical and less prone to fall on the house ... and fill the gutters with leaves..
Em and I went to see WALL-E this past weekend and it was pretty great. Not quite as good as Finding Nemo or The Incredibles but a very good movie none the less (highly recommend). The plot is a bit more "kid-ish" but there are plenty of more adult jokes that the kids miss and plenty of just plain good fun. Oh, and Disney is evidently coming out with some HORRIBLE looking movie about chihauhuas in Hollywood. I will NEVER get that 2 minutes back.
Other than that, just work and softball. This week I am working on an internal Rails project and spent several hours this weekend getting some stuff setup on my home machine to try and learn about it before this week ... well the setup took longer than expected but I learned a ton. Hopefully I will post about it soon.
Em and I joined the local municipal recreation/fitness/aquatic center. Its actually a very nice facility and very cheap compared to other gym memberships. Em got the fitness + pool b/c she will use it and I just got the fitness center and will pay the local resident rate when I go with her. I don't like sitting out like she does, but the aquatic center has a full lap pool, water slide, kids area and lazy river. I do the lazy river.
On the topic of working out I am once again trying to get back(for the first time) into the swing of things. To that end I am trying out several online tools to track your workouts, progress, etc. I am hoping to post a review shortly after I have tried them out for a couple of sessions.
That is all.
Posted by Benjamin P Lee at 7/07/2008 09:20:00 PM 0 comments Labels: food, housing, life, reviews, work
Posted by Benjamin P Lee at 6/29/2008 08:47:00 PM 0 comments Labels: photography
Posted by Benjamin P Lee at 6/29/2008 08:45:00 PM 1 comments Labels: photography
It seems like 80% of my posts start with me saying something about being busy.
Well, lets continue the trend.
Its been a busy week[end].
This past week our National Sex Offender Registry project started back up after a new statement of work was signed so we have been hard at work implementing a couple of additional features to our original application. Its nice to be moving forward with this again and nearing the finish line. Good projects are always a good thing, but if you don't ever finish and hand if off "done" to somone else, there isn't the closure that should be there. However, trying to jump back into a project after a few weeks of working on completely different stuff in a different language leaves you with a few hours where you feel like your running around with your head cut off trying to figure out where things are :)
Also this week we finished up some work on an internal application and found out that another project I am supposed to be helping out with (.Net realty website) will be starting soon so I will have to try and juggle some work for both for the next couple weeks. Should be fun and make for some really short and some really long days.
This weekend was a packed one. We cleaned our apartment for the last time and turned in the keys. It was a good apartment and served our needs well but I found that I didn't really miss it. Leaving Cinci was definitely harder (leaving jobs, friends, etc) but this time it just seemed like an upgrade which is a good thing I guess.
Along with cleaning we purchased and put together (took forever) a couple of nice bookcases for the office, fixed the drain to the washer (and it doesn't leak ;-) ), got fertalizer and fertalized and sprayed some weed stuff on the lawn, unpacked more and had a nice cookout tonight with some of my family and enjoyed the unseasonably cool weather.
This week .... work, Em works a day, softball, cleaning the gutters and hopefully finding some time to relax. Oh and since Em's parents are going out of town for a day and half ... Harry their lab is coming to stay with us for a two nights. It will be cool having a dog here but interesting to see how he deals with all of the hardwood floors and the new environment. Wish us luck :) It should be a good trial run for getting a new dog (next on our list of things to do).
Oh, and I have been listening to Pandora a ton this weekend. I remember reading about it a long time ago but never really checked it out. Its pretty impressive. Give it a few seeds of songs/artists you like and it plays really good music for the most part, online, and free. Can't beat that.
Posted by Benjamin P Lee at 6/29/2008 08:28:00 PM 1 comments Labels: housing, work
With the help of friends and family, yesterday, Em and I officially moved all of our stuff from our apt to our new house. :-D
Firstly, a huge thank you to everyone who helped. Everything went much smoother and faster than I had anticipated.
That being said, the move went well. The only small hiccups were when we found that a piece of furniture we were picking up from Em's grandparents wouldn't fit in our moving truck standing up, when I found out that the moving-pads I had requested weren't in the truck, and when we got done so fast that my parents had to wait at the apt to give my aunt the couch we were giving her. All in all very minor things.
The house still looks big, but less big now that all of our stuff is in it. We did some minor unpacking the rest of the day but will still be doing it for the next week or so. Last night was our first night in the house and it was really nice waking up there. :-)
I will be sending out an email to those of you who read this and aren't family shortly with the new address.
Posted by Benjamin P Lee at 6/23/2008 03:02:00 PM 0 comments Labels: housing, tech stuff, work
Posted by Benjamin P Lee at 6/18/2008 09:42:00 AM 0 comments Labels: tech stuff
Its been a busy few days with the new house. We closed last Thursday and have spent good parts of each day over at the house cleaning/fixing/gardening/packing/unpacking/etc. Em has been a huge help in moving tons of the smaller stuff over there the past few days and will be there most of the week as delivery people start bringing stuff.
Posted by Benjamin P Lee at 6/16/2008 09:59:00 PM 1 comments Labels: finance, housing, life, photography, work
Yep ... its official. Em and I are the proud owners of a mortgage! Err... I mean a new house!
We met up for our closing this morning (I took the day off) and after signing and initially what seemed like a mountain of paperwork (more like ~40 pages) we were officially the owners of a mortgage (we also had to run to our bank and get a cashiers check for by far the largest amount I have ever paid and turn that over too).
A few hours of waiting and buying house supplies the sellers had closed and we officially had our house. :-)
The previous owners were great, they were gone well before we got there, had mowed the lawn since the walkthrough, left the window treatments that we liked along with a few small pieces of furniture and a bottle of champagne on ice :-) We spent the rest of the day/evening making plans, doing some minor cleaning, and showing the house to Em's sister and my parents. We capped the evening off by ordering pizza to be delivered to our new house.
Tomorrow, Em is going to spend a good chunk of the day cleaning (everything was in good shape but its the only shot we will have to really clean it before things are moved in) and doing some arranging. This weekend we have a BBQ and a family picnic along with Father's Day festivities. Also, sometime between now and next Wednesday I need to figure out how to take apart a doorframe in our basement so that the washer/dryer set we bought yesterday (yep, we started saying goodbye to our money yesterday) will fit. We ended up only finding one set that would fit throught he doorway and decided we would rather have the hassle of taking it apart and putting it back and have the ones we wanted .... than have ones we didn't like.
Next up is a huge list of cleaning/fixing/setting up/etc things around the house, packing and moving smaller things and gennerally getting things set up. Also we will probably be buying our fridge tomorrow (if we can decide between the expensive one we like and the more expensive one we love) and a bedroom set and living room set soon.
Hurray for debt! Its the American way, right?
Posted by Benjamin P Lee at 6/12/2008 08:47:00 PM 7 comments Labels: housing, life
Monday we had our final walkthrough and I am happy to report that everything looked good. Our only concern is if the current owners will be out in time. When we walked through they still had the majority of their stuff there (much of it packed in boxes, but still in every room). Hopefully they took off yesterday and/or today and moved it all ... but we shall see. We close in the morning on Thursday and they close around lunch time, so if all goes as planned, we will be able to go in our new house in the afternoon. :-)
Another concern that turned out to be a non-issue was a small leak the current owners had reported to us via the realtors. It turns out that sometime last week they noticed a small amount of water coming from the wall in the basement ... but on the other side of the house from where they had had problems in the past. This worried us, so we told them to have someone come out and look at it, figure out what it was and hopefully fix it. They did. It turns out that there was a small opening where the gas lines enters the foundation ... and only b/c we had had so much rain recently that a small amount of water made its way through the opening next to the pipe (this is on the side with a hill going away from the house). They had someone out yesterday to fix the opening and that should be that.
So other than trying to pack some more and wondering if they are all moved out, not much is going on until tomorrow. :-)
Oh, and we lost our softball game. We are now 1-1-1-2-4 (win/loss/tie/bye/rain). My hitting was solid (3:3 w/ ~3 RBI and 2 runs) but our defense had some really poor innings (this included me .... I have to remember to not try and barehand hard hit grounders, they don't pan out well).
Posted by Benjamin P Lee at 6/11/2008 09:05:00 AM 4 comments Labels: housing, work
The following are three random videos I took in the past couple weeks (and one from last year) and happened to load to Google Video. Sorry if the page loads slow, I have know idea what putting 4 video links on the same page will do.
The first is of a curious baby orangutan who picks his nose and ....
Posted by Benjamin P Lee at 6/08/2008 09:48:00 PM 0 comments Labels: photography
Posted by Benjamin P Lee at 6/08/2008 09:42:00 PM 0 comments Labels: photography
I love the St. Louis Zoo. Not only is it a world class zoo and completely free to the public ... but if you get there when it opens on a Saturday then its pretty much deserted and you can walk right up to the animals who are very playful at 8am.
If you can't figure out what Em and I did this past Saturday, then just look at the pics....
Posted by Benjamin P Lee at 6/08/2008 09:20:00 PM 0 comments Labels: housing, photography
Posted by Benjamin P Lee at 6/02/2008 09:21:00 PM 2 comments Labels: photography
As always, its been a busy few days
This past weekend Em and I took in the few hours of nice weather and went to the Missouri Botanical Gardens (where they had the orchid show a few months ago). Along with all of the really cool plants and gardens that they always have they also are featuring artwork for the Niki collection. The huge and ornate sculptures were pretty amazing.
Posted by Benjamin P Lee at 6/02/2008 08:38:00 PM 0 comments Labels: housing, life, photography, reviews
Well, as of the closing date we are.
After work today I setup our home owner's insurance with USAA (we already have car insurance and some other accounts with them). All in all the process is fairly painless however I found a couple of things while doing it (at least at USAA):
Posted by Benjamin P Lee at 5/28/2008 07:49:00 PM 0 comments Labels: housing